There is communication for a reason. If one is not going to make an attempt at communication how can a problem ever be solved. Is it too difficult to just discuss an issue? What is the point in taking violent actions. Everything you do has a consequence. Adding violence makes matters worse. Problems will never be healed when there is no attempt to fix them. If everyone involved in the conflict isn't not going to make an attempt to resolve it, there is no point in trying to fix it. Sadly, there will always be hate. You can't always fix matters, but why make issues worse. If you aren't going to try and fix problems created, just leave the people you are hurting in the process. Life is difficult and it sounds harsh, but why live with hatred when there is a chance to move on?